Chances are, you know someone right now who is pregnant. We all know what to say if it is a joyful time in her life. But what do you say if you know someone dealing with an unexpected pregnancy? If it is an unexpected pregnancy, here are some ideas on how to be the best support person you can be.
Be calm
If this pregnancy is unexpected, she may have taken a huge risk in sharing with you. Help her gather the resources she needs.
Be a listener
If being pregnant is stressing her, take the time to listen to her and ask questions to help her process. You can ask these types of questions:
- Is she worried about finances?
- Has she told her boyfriend?
- Has she told her parents?
- Has she confirmed the pregnancy?
Be positive
No matter what the circumstances, remind your friend that she can be a great parent. Pregnancy is a time of huge life transitions and nearly everyone feels a little nervous about being a
parent no matter if the pregnancy is unexpected or not.
Finally, remind her she has options and should not feel pressured to do something she’s not ready for.
Wellspring provides a confidential and supportive place where you can gain the information you need so you can make a fully informed decision. We will not pressure you into a decision and will provide resources to empower you to make the decision that is right for you.
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