Maybe you’ve had an abortion in the past and don’t want another one but still feel overwhelmed by the idea of becoming a parent.

The good news is there are a variety of options when you say no to abortion.

Adoption

Placing a child for adoption is a highly loving decision and is the best option for some women.

While you may not be in a place to parent, the design of modern adoption allows you to choose how involved you want to be in your child’s life.

The three common types of adoption today include:

  • Open adoption: You can choose the family you want to adopt your baby and decide if you want to keep in contact with them. You can also choose how involved you want to be in the baby’s life.
  • Semi-open adoption: You can still have contact with the family and baby, but a professional adoption agency will help manage communication and keep your identifying information confidential.
  • Closed adoption: You won’t have contact with the baby, and the identities of all parties are kept confidential. The court keeps adoption records sealed.

Choosing open adoption may be what gives you the peace of mind you need, knowing that your child is a part of a loving family and that you can continue to be involved in your child’s life.

Or you might find it too challenging to be closely involved and prefer to receive occasional updates or even remain anonymous.

No matter what option you choose, know that placing your child for adoption takes courage.

Parenting

Before choosing not to parent because you don’t feel ready, you should know many women have the same feeling even with a planned pregnancy.

Parenting is a huge commitment and responsibility, but the good news is you don’t have to do it alone.

Even if you lack family support, most communities offer various resources to help you in your parenthood journey.

Common resources include:

  • Parenting classes
  • Support groups
  • Child care assistance
  • Free diapers and formula

You may believe that becoming a parent means walking away from your dreams to finish school or succeed in your career. However, meeting other women in support groups walking your same journey and taking advantage of child care assistance programs can set you up for success.

Find Out More

If you want to learn more about adoption or parenting, Wellness Pregnancy and Health Center is here to help.

Our trusted staff can provide valuable resources and discuss your questions or concerns.

We also offer free pregnancy tests, ultrasound scans, STI testing, and post-abortion support.

Contact us today for your confidential appointment. You can also call or text 402-463-7785.