The decision to terminate an unexpected pregnancy can be a difficult thing to talk about with others.  

Legally, you have no obligation to tell your partner, but it can be helpful to receive their insight before making your final decision. 

You may be hesitant to share your desire for an abortion with your partner because you don’t know how they will react. 

If you need help knowing how to discuss the subject with your partner, this blog can provide some helpful tips. 

Preparing For the Conversation

When preparing to share the news of your pregnancy or your desire for an abortion, it can be helpful to take time and reflect on why you feel that abortion is the best option for you. 

Speaking with a counselor, faith leader, or a close friend about your pregnancy decision is an excellent way to ensure that you have weighed potential outcomes and thought through how your pregnancy decision might affect your future. This trusted person may also be able to provide you with advice as you prepare to tell your partner about your decision. 

Before telling your partner about your pregnancy decision, if you have fears that your partner might physically harm you, call the National Domestic Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE). If you ever find yourself in immediate danger, call 911 right away. 

Sharing the News

1. Pick the Right Environment

Make sure that wherever you talk with your partner, you feel comfortable and can be fully present. Being in a comfortable place will also prepare you to speak calmly and take time to explain your decision without other distractions.

2. Share the Facts

Understanding the details about the viability and age of your pregnancy ensures that you have valuable information to share with your partner when discussing your pregnancy decision.   

3. Take Time to Talk It Out

Even if you feel confident in your decision, allow your partner to share his thoughts and try to have an open mind. He may share something that you have not thought of yet. Try talking through all of your options together. 

We’re Here to Help

If you’re preparing to talk with your partner, we are here to support you. 

Choosing to have an abortion is a serious medical decision and can lead to unwanted physical and mental health effects. The medical team at Wellspring Hastings wants to help provide you with all the information you need to make an informed decision.  

Make an appointment today for a free lab-quality pregnancy test and ultrasound scan to learn more about your pregnancy. Our team wants to hear your fears and answer your questions. You don’t have to face your unplanned pregnancy alone.  

Contact us to get the help you deserve. You can also call or text 402-984-8416